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UNIT 11
UNIT 11
CONFLICT AND COMPROMISE
LESSON 2
DEALING WITH CONFLICT
To listen and talk about conflicts and ways of dealing with them
To listen for understanding and detail
To practise giving suggestions
To talk about a personal conflict
Brainstorm ways you use to resolve conflict in daily
life.
to respond to anger with more anger
to do nothing or try to escape
to repeat what you said in a different way
to explain clearly what you want
to negotiate with the other person
to solve the problem yourself
to ask for help from somebody outside the situation
to put forward solutions
Look at the different ways of dealing with conflict. Discuss with your partner which ways you would use to resolve conflict ( ), and which you wouldn’t use ( ).
Listen to a radio programme about dealing with conflict. What are the three common ways to deal with conflict Complete the first column of the table.
What are the three common ways
To respond to anger with more anger
Doing nothing
To ask for help from somebody outside the situation
What does each way mean Why isn’t it helpful
This means you ______ more negatively and _________ to a situation of _________. The situation can _________ or even lead to __________.
react
violently
conflict
get worse
violence
Listen again. Complete the rest of the information in Activity 2. Then, share with your partner what you have learnt about the three common ways to deal with conflict.
To respond to anger with more anger
What does each way mean Why isn’t it helpful
The person says nothing and tries to _____________ the situation. This does not __________________.
The person who withdraws feels _____________________________________________________________.
Holding your feelings inside can be _________________.
escape or ignore
solve any problems
more and more angry with the other person
very unhealthy
Doing nothing
What does each way mean Why isn’t it helpful
You ___________ somebody outside the situation, and they ___________________ __________. However, people outside the situation __________________________. They are usually not in _____________ to make the right judgment.
call on
decide what should
happen
may not know the whole story
the position
To ask for help from somebody outside the situation
Share with your partner what you have learnt about the three common ways to deal with conflict.
According to Dr. Maguire, there are three common ways to deal with conflict.
The first one is…
The second one is…
The third one is …
…
1) What are the two conflicts the interviewer mentions
2) What is the worst way of dealing with conflict according to
Dr. Maguire
3) What is the best way recommended
Neighbours complain of extremely loud music until very late at night and parents become really angry with their children for spending too much time online.
Try to negotiate with the other person.
Respond to anger with more anger.
Listen again. Answer the questions.
Read each situation and how the conflicts are resolved. Analyse their possible consequences. Give comments or recommendations on how to deal with each situation.
a Amy did not do well in her maths exam, and her mother was very angry with her as a result. Amy argued that one exam would not mean total failure, but her mother did not agree. Amy’s way to deal with the problem was refusing to talk to her mother for three days.
Not talking to her mother for three days would make both Amy and her mother feel very upset. It would be better if Amy and her mother went to the maths teacher and discuss Amy’s problems and find a solution.
b Bob accidentally stamped on a man’s foot on the bus. The man was very angry and swore at Bob. Bob was angry, too. He yelled and swore back at the man.
This situation could have led on to a more serious argument and eventually get police involved in. the man could have complained and Bob could have said sorry right away.
c Daisy though Cathy had reported her to the teacher, even though Cathy had not. Daisy was so angry that she wouldn’t allow Cathy to tell her side of the story. Therefore, Cathy asked her friend Fiona to talk to Daisy on her behalf.
Daisy’s stubborn behaviour could have ended her friendship with Cathy. Daisy should have been more open to Cathy’s side of the story.
1. What do you think people should do to deal with the conflict properly
2. Predict what suggestions the expert will give to deal with conflict properly.
Listen to Dr. Maguire talking about what we should do to deal with plete his suggestions.
First, ________________________________________________
______________________.
Next, _______________________________________________.
Then, _______________________________________________.
You should __________________________________________
____________.
Also, ________________________________________________.
you should not act as if you’re 100% right and they are 100% wrong
you should try to explain clearly what you want
you put forward solutions
FOCUS ON FUNCTION: GIVING SUGGESTIONS
speak clearly and firmly, but you should never shout
be careful of your body language
Listen and plete the Talk Builder.
it’s always better should not should
the best thing should never try to
Giving Suggestions
1 You ________ not act as if you’re 100% right and they are 100% wrong.
2 You ________ try to explain clearly what you want.
3 You _________ respond in the same way.
should
should
shouldn’t
it’s always better should not should
the best thing should never try to
Giving Suggestions
4 ______________ is to repeat what you said in a different way.
5 You ____________ speak clearly and firmly, but you _____________ shout.
6 _____________ relax, and _________________ never to stand too close to the other person.
The best thing
should
should never
Try to
it’s always better
Think about a conflict you have experienced. Share your experience in pairs and give each other suggestions.
1. to put forward solutions 提出解決方案
put forward: to suggest something for discussion 提出
to move something to an earlier time or date將……提前
to move the hands of a clock to the correct later time 向前撥，撥快（時鐘指針）
to suggest yourself/somebody as a candidate for a job or position 推薦
e.g. He also put forward some suggestions for the experiment teaching on the forum (論壇).
They have apologized for putting forward the date of their wedding by one week.
You’d better put your watch forward by ten minutes in order not to miss the bus to the clinic (診所).
Can I put you/your name forward for club secretary
put aside 節省；儲蓄；儲存；留出；不理睬
put away 放好；積蓄 put down 記下；放下；鎮壓
put off 延期；推遲 put on 穿上；上演
put out 撲滅；生產 put up with 容忍；忍受
put through 接通電話；完成；使經受
【語境應用】用put的相關短語的適當形式填空。
The kitchen caught fire. Tom suggested that they should call firefighters to help __________ the fire. However, his mother, who thought the fire is not that big, ___________ a solution: to ____________ the fire by themselves. Therefore, they __________ their fire-protection suits, __________ a wet quilt and covered the fire. To their surprise, some firemen appeared at their house. A neighbor couldn’t __________ the heavy smoke and telephoned 119.
put out
put forward
put off
put on
put up
put up with
2. The person who withdraws feels more and more angry with the other person.
退縮的那個人對另一個人感到越來越生氣。
withdraw vi. & vt. to stop taking part in an activity or being
a member of an organization; (使)退出(活動、組織等)
to stop giving support or money to someone or something 取消，不再給予，停止提供
to take money out of a bank account 提，取(銀行賬戶中的款)
withdrawal n. 收回；撤退；提款
e.g. In 2016 Britain voted to withdraw from the EU.
He withdrew his support for our campaign.
He had withdrawn all the money from their joint account.
Government troops were forced to withdraw.
to move back or away from a place or situation; to make somebody/something do this (使)撤回，撤離
【語境應用】單句語法填空。
1) If you experience any unusual symptoms after __________ (withdraw) of the treatment, contact your doctor.
2) His __________ (withdraw) from the election attracted people’s great attention.
3) Both powers withdrew their forces __________ the region.
4) The horse has been withdrawn __________ the race.
withdrawal
withdrawal
from
from
3. Daisy thought Cathy had reported her to the teacher, even though Cathy had not.
Daisy認為Cathy已經向老師舉報了她，盡管Cathy沒有。
even though = even if 雖然，即使，引導讓步狀語從句
e.g. Even though you lost the match eventually, you shouldn’t lose heart.
【注意】
在含有even though, even if引導的讓步狀語從句的復合句中，如果主句用一般將來時，從句則用一般現在時表將來。
【比較】
as though (=as if) “好像，仿佛”，引導表語從句或方式狀語從句。當說話人認為所說的情況是事實時，用陳述語氣；當說話人認為所說的情況可能不是事實時，則用虛擬語氣。
e.g. Even though it snows tomorrow, we will go on with the roadworks.
【語境應用】根據漢語意思完成句子。
1) _____________ (盡管) the forest park is far away, a lot of tourists visit it every year.
2) Allow children the space to voice their opinions, _____________ (即使) they are different from your own.
3) The foreigner talks about Chinese culture _____________ (好像) he were more familiar with it than his own.
Even though/ if
even if/ though
as if/ though
4. Daisy was so angry that she wouldn’t allow Cathy to tell her side of the story.
Daisy非常生氣，她不讓Cathy說出她的說法。
so… that… 如此……以至于……，that引導結果狀語從句。
e.g. His handwriting is so random that it is difficult for the teacher to tell.
(1) so…that…句型的常見形式
so+ adj./ adv. + that…
so + adj. +a (n) + n. (可數名詞單數) + that…
so + many/ few + n. (不可數名詞)+ that…
(2) such… that… 也可表示“如此……以至于……”
such + a(n) + adj. + n. (可數名詞單數) + that…
such + adj. + n. (不可數名詞/ 可數名詞復數) + that…
(3) 當so… / such…放在句首時，主句要用部分倒裝。
e.g. We did so well that we were invited to share our idea and theory with all the students of our school.
=So well did we do that we were invited to share our idea and theory with all the students of our school.
【語境應用】一句兩譯。
1) 他是個如此好的男孩，以至于他們都想收養他。
A: __________________ that they all want to adopt him.
B: __________________ that they all want to adopt him.
2) 結果，孩子們變得非常依賴他們的父母，沒有獨立的想法或創意。
A: As a consequence, ______________________________________ that they have no independent thoughts or creative ideas.
B: As a consequence, _______________________________________ that they have no independent thoughts or creative ideas.
He is such a good boy
Such a good boy is he
children become so reliant on their parents
so reliant on their parents do children become
3) 那時，我非常喜歡籃球，經常整天打球。
A: At that time I loved basketball ____________ I frequently played all day long.
B: At that time ___________ did I love basketball ________ I frequently played all day long.
4) 現在郊區發展得如此之快，你完全想像不到它們明天會是什么樣子。
A: The outskirts are developing ____________ you can never imagine what they will be like tomorrow.
B: ____________ the outskirts developing __________ you can never imagine what they will be like tomorrow.
so much that
so much that
so fast that
So fast are that
5. You should speak clearly and firmly, but you shouldn’t shout.
你應該清晰堅定地說，但不應該喊叫。
firm n. 公司
adj. 堅固的；穩固的；強有力的；堅定的
be firm about… ……的想法很堅定
stand firm against 堅定地反對……
firmness n. 堅固；堅實；堅定；堅決
firmly adv. in a strong or definite way 堅定地，堅決地
e.g. The household firmly carried out this plan made by themselves.
【語境應用】單句語法填空。
1) He __________ (firm) believed that better service should be provided by the canteen.
2) He got encouragement from the words: The secret of success lies in the __________ (firm) of purpose.
3) He is firm __________ the function of the network.
4) We stand firm __________ the intervention from abroad.
firmly
firmness
about
against
Write about a conflict you have experienced and how you dealt with it then.

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